Bernice Saroni, also known as MamakeBoyz, is making waves in Kenya as the cousin of the renowned artist Samidoh.
She has fearlessly delved into the complex issue of extramarital relationships, sparking vibrant discussions among women on various social media platforms.
On September 7, Saroni categorically dissected side relationships into two distinct types, shedding light on their differing motivations and behaviors.
Her candid remarks on TikTok resonated deeply with individuals who have found themselves entangled in similar situations.
The first category involves discreet affairs where the partner prefers to remain hidden, avoiding any recognition from the spouse.
These individuals date someone who is already married and keep their involvement concealed.
However, it was the second category that drew Bernice Saroni’s strongest sentiments, which she referred to as “pepo” or rivals and envious disruptors within the relationship.
She pointed out, “These individuals make their presence known. They may even insult the wife, leaving you to wonder, why are you attacking the wife? The wife didn’t seek you out; you pursued her partner. You are the one jeopardizing the home.”
Saroni’s message was a resounding call for women to recognize and prioritize their own self-worth and self-love.
She urged women to steer clear of involvements with married men, emphasizing that such relationships ultimately lead to a lack of inner peace and fulfillment.
“If you’ve chosen to become a side partner, you fall into the second category. This man initially informed you of his marital status, his children, and he never promised to leave his wife for you. So, why can’t you simply maintain your discretion and focus on your own life? If you believe in your own beauty and worth, there’s no reason to date a married man.”
She concluded with a heartfelt appeal to women to cherish themselves, prioritize their well-being, and seek partners who align with their values.
“You won’t be relegated to the role of a secondary spouse; you’ll find a partner of your own. To the second type of side partners, let go of jealousy and competition; ultimately, it will rob you of your peace.”
In a society where such discussions often remain hushed, Bernice Saroni’s courage to tackle this issue head-on has sparked a much-needed dialogue among women about self-respect, empowerment, and choosing relationships that bring fulfillment.
Her message serves as a powerful reminder for all individuals to prioritize their own well-being and happiness above all else.
